He Tried it, You Lit This Instead Candle

Smell Like You Got Your Life Together Even If You Don’t 🕯️💅🏽

Introducing the Don’t Date Him LA Luxe Candle Collection made for the girls who love a soft life, a strong boundary, and a whole lot of ambiance. Hand-poured with eco-friendly Coconut Apricot Wax (because we don’t do toxic anything, especially not in our homes), these candles are serving scent and serenity.

Whether you're laid up solo on a Sunday or setting the mood for a girls' night in, these candles do more than smell good they shift the energy, period.

Choose your vibe:

🌊 Beechwood – Smells like a rich man’s beach house. Coastal, clean, and giving “I don’t do broke.”

🧼 Cashmere Musk – Soft, warm, sensual. Like cuddling with a man who doesn’t lie.

☕️ Cinnamon Chai – Cozy and spicy. Smells like fall, healing, and gossiping in hoodies.

🎄 Fraser Fir – Smells like Christmas and cutting off old situations before the new year.

💜 Lavender – Calm, classic, and “don’t text me I’m at peace” energy.

🥭 Mango Coconut – Sweet, flirty, and just a little tropical. Smells like you’re booked and unbothered.

🕯️ Unscented – For the girls who like a vibe but don’t want the drama. Or the fragrance.

🍦 Vanilla Bean – Rich, creamy, and timeless — like that bestie who always smells expensive.

Perfect for gifting, self-soothing, or setting the tone for your next main character moment.

💋 Light one, sip something, and remind yourself: your peace is priceless.

Product features

- Eco-friendly and non-toxic, made with natural Coconut Apricot Wax.

- Enjoy up to 20 hours of burn time for lasting enjoyment.

- A variety of enticing scents to choose from including Fraser Fir and Vanilla Bean.

- Comes in a reusable glass vessel, perfect for decor after the candle is burned.

- Crafted from materials compliant with ASTM safety standards, ensuring safety and quality.

Care instructions

- Before burning, always trim the wick to ¼ inch. Keep the wax pool clear. Always use a candle holder, it should be heat resistant, sturdy, and large enough to contain any drips or melted wax. Burn candles in a well-ventilated room. Never burn a candle for longer than three hours, cool for at least two hours before relighting. Never leave a candle unattended, keep it away from anything that can catch fire. Keep candles out of the reach of children and pets. Don't burn a candle all the way down. Use a candle snuffer to extinguish a candle, it's the safest way to prevent wax from splattering